I'm not someone who needs a big hoopla for it either. I'm perfectly content with kisses and beer.
What I do like, is to send Valentine's in the mail and while I like to make my own, I can't get enough of all the good ones on Etsy:
Doily Cards from beauideal
Queen of Hearts from Ice Cream Social
Do Me card from The Crafty Devils
Hey I Love You card from Made by Girl